gender language can be complicated because of the "identity" confusion that many find themselves in, in today's society. Listening to the transgender speaking i knew it was a man, a very confused one to. Regardless of the fact that i don't agree with all that identity crisis they got through it is his life and i respect him/her for that. Our voices or our language is what identifies us. we can say so much through the tone of our voices, when we are happy or sad or mad. Man's voices are definitely deeper than women and that's very attractive. women's voices are more soft and higher pitch and you can tell with your eyes closed whether is a man or a women. there are definitely certain characteristic that define us as far as expressing our feelings and every day situations. Man have a firmer voice, authoritative there are certain professions where man's voice can have a more negative impact if they cannot control the level of their voices. hospitals are a good example i like when, whether is a male or female nurse or even a doctor, use a very soft almost baby like type of voice. The way one is brought up also has a big influence on how he/she expresses or behaves in certain situations, resulting in judgment on the part of relatives, friends regarding gender appropriate behavior.